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-We cherish all of your concerns.
Nation's Concern Contest.
-We invited two special guests today.
Yeo Esther and Hong Hae-gul.
They both came out.
Hi everyone.
-So, there is a rumor on this side that
you both live in conjugal harmony. 10
-That was before. 11
-Even a couple of years ago. 12
-Recently I turned 53 and my husband is over 50 now 13
He is going through menopause, so we split the bed a while ago. 14
Separated 30cm. 15
-What was the reason? 16
-Since I am going through menopause, I can't go to sleep 17
if I rustle he can't fall asleep . 18
-us... 19
-also, I try to sleep like this so he doesn't wake up. 20
Guess what happens to my joints. 21
-It hurts. 22
-So we split the bed in order to move freely. 23
-It annoys me that my wife was greedy for air time. 24
She is getting it all. 25
-We invited both of you for marital chemistry. 26
-But nowadays all sorts of things bother me. 27
I am glad we are far from each other. 28
Also, I say smart things in programs too. 29
But after the program gets edited, she is the one who comes out pretty. 30
So... 31
-That worries you? 32
-That's a fuss, a little one. 33
-A conflict. 34
-You should be sitting on the 'Worry' seat instead of the guest seat. 35
-Really? 36
-You lived long enough if you've been married for 24 years. 37
Do you have a 'know-how' to overcome crisis? 38
Like a couple's fight. 39
-It's not a know-how, but these days I treat my husband 40
as if he was my son. 41
Because when he comes home drunk, I get angry, but 42
when I think that he is my son, I even get up and slice some apples for him. 43
I am trying to think of him as my son. 44
-As a son... 45
-I have something to say. 46
I think of my wife as a patient these days. 47
-Hey. this is conjugal harmony's know-how. 48
-However, because it is menopause, 49
I can understand better if I think her as a patient I need to care about. 50
-You left that patient alone in Yang-jae-cheon and 51
left after getting sulky? 52
-In Yang-jae-cheon? 53
-Yes, we were taking a walk in Yang-jae-cheon... 54
-I think lots of things to worry about will come out after this program. 55
-Today we got 3 concerns to present. 56
Let's check the keyword for those concerns. 57
-Hello, I am Young-sook. 58
-Older sister is gold, I am poop. 59
-Daughter please stop. 60
-Daughter please stop. 61
It's a mom requesting daughter concern. 62
Hello. 63
I'm a mom in her 60s who can't fall asleep worried about my recently married daughter. 64
My daughter is... 65
making babies with no breaks after getting married. 66
-without a break... 67
-15 year old grandson, 13 year old granddaughter, 12 year old grandson 68
9, 5, and 2 year old grandsons, and a 4 year old granddaughter. 69
Plus, recently born granddaughter. A total of 5 sons and 3 daughters. 8 total. 70
-Wow, impressive. 71
-Wow, wow. 72
Oh, stop making babies! 73
What are you saying mom?. 74
I will have 10 total. 75
My daughter doesn't even listen to me. 76
This is what happens. Riiiiing. 77
Phew, son-in-law, please tell my daughter to stop making babies. 78
My daughter's stubbornness hurts both families. 79
Daughter, please stop making babies! 80
-Incredible. 81
-Ya~ Impressive. 82
-Very impressive. 83
However, in the case of couples with many children 84
There are couples here. 85
Their husbands are quite think, a little. 86
They are slim. 87
-Let's have the protagonist of the concern. 88
Ok, mom you can come out now. 89
This is a very rare situation for nowadays. 90
She gave birth to all of them, right? 91
-Yes. 92
it's been 14 years. 93
I thought they will be fine until the third child 94
I became a grandmother of 8 children. 95
So I said, hey, please stop making babies. 96
Then she said I will have 10 in total... 97
-Fill up to 10 children. 98
-Yes. 99
So I am here because of that concern. 100
-But normally this is... 101
Checking her appearance and all. 102
How about you, how many children did you have? 103
-3 daughters, 1 son. 104
-1 son 3 daughters. 105
- Even my family is like that. 106
-Yes, hi. 107
-Now you saw it? 108
Hello mom? 109
-Is it because you have to take care of the grand children 110
and it is hard? 111
-Of course. 112
-No, it's not hard. 113
-You don't take care of them? 114
-I'm currently working since I have a convalescence protection certificate. 115
-Oh you work. 116
-I go once in a while to visit... 117
-when I go, her belly is big, next time I visit her belly is big again. 118
-Yes. 119
I see her again and it's big again. 120
In a while... 121
She is becoming elderly from taking care of all the kids. 122
She doesn't ware make-up and doesn't ware pretty cloths. 123
-Your concern is in your daughter not 124
having a life right? 125
-That's right. 126
She is not even worried. 127
She gives birth in less than an hour. 128
-Less than an hour? 129
Really? 130
-Yes. 131
-I'm sorry but how old is your daughter now? 132
-She is a little over 30. 133
-And your son-in-law? 134
-10 years a part. 135
-I want to meet them soon. 136
-The 8 brothers and sisters are all here. 137
Hi, how are you? 138
-Hey guys, how are you? 139
-Hello. 140
-Nowadays moms do not plan 141
to have many children. 142
Not only because you have to invest a lot of money, it's hard. 143
But how did this happen? 144
-It's because I'm really healthy. 145
-Even if you were healthy, 8 is too much. 146
-So, Did you give birth in less than an hour? 147
-Yes, Not only when I give birth, but also when I visit the obstetrics. 148
I even go to the hospital alone... 149
-Alone? 150
-It was close so I drove myself there. 151
-Didn't even think about it's hard to drive, 152
but ok, I'm just giving birth... 153
So, it's weird. 154
-Going to give birth... 155
-But why do you plan on having 10 children? 156
-Isn't it hard to raise them? 157
-Of course it's harder to raise them than giving birth. 158
But if it was that hard, why would I plan on having 12? 159
-Mommy, we thought it was 10. 160
-It's not 10? 161
-It was 10, right?. 162
-I'm thinking in having 12. 163
-That's crazy. 164
Isn't that too much? 165
-Mommy, say something. 166
-She is saying 12, 12. 167
-It can't be. 168
She's gone crazy. 169
-Why 12? 170
-I'm thinking in having 12 because the children 171
each one of them are so pretty. 172
-Just say it. 173
She probably has something to say. 174
-You are going to become an MC, an MC. 175
-It's very quiet for having 8 children. 176
-Your mother-in-law called to stop having babies, Mr. Jang was having a hard time. 177
-Did you know she called? 178
Your mother-in-law called. 179
-In the beginning she said that having babies was good for the son-in-law, 180
that he will be better, but now she says. 181
-careful, careful. 182
careful in the back. 183
-Hey, no time to take a rest, Really. 184
-Continuously, it's like that constantly. 185
If you have that many children. 186
-Do it without it, take it off. 187
-Never having that many. 188
-So cute. 189
-Good job. 190
-Mommy. 191
If it's at a point where her mother-in- law called, his son might have called 192
and said, "I'm about to die." Did he say something like that? 193
How did it happen? 194
-She is distracted, because of her kids. 195
Without the kids. 196
-I'm sorry. 197
I... 198
-So your mom is concerned about your health and your life. 199
You understand why your mom is so worried, right? 200
-I'm healthy. 201
-Hey, when I see you working at home 202
with so many children, my heart aches. 203
She won't let me scold the kids. 204
-She won't let me say a word. 205
-That's why I was so upset. 206
-For a mom, her daughter is more important. 207
Her children. 208
-Yes, For me it's her who's important... 209
-Ok, now I can breath. 210
You only have 3 left here. 211
-Isn't it perfect? 212
-Now that only 3 is left here. 213
-The rest of the audience who are seated. 214
-They all can take a breath. 215
It's because when they walk around, they might fall. 216
-How is your health? 217
-I'm healthy and my little grandma raised 12 children. 218
-Wow. 219
-Man Jong-ee, Chil Jong-ee. 220
-Man Jong-ee... 221
-She lived a long life till 99. 222
-She was healthy. 223
-Yes. 224
It's because I live like that I'm healthy. 225
-For your own longevity. 226
-Yes. 227
-Another thing you mom is worried about is 228
My daughter is in her 30s, but she doesn't look like it. 229
You don't ware make-up. 230
-You look like you're at your 40s or even 50s , now. 231
she is worried about that, what do you think? 232
-When you raise your kids one by one, they all look different... 233
-True. 234
-And I feel I'm being happy 235
I think I'm happy at least. 236
-But they all look different. 237
-So for your daughter waring make-up and dressing nicely doesn't make her happy 238
It's possible to be happy when you see a miracle all the time. 239
-It's not like that, when I go home. 240
It's all messy. 241
-But there is nothing to do about that. 242
-If I go and want to clean a little. 243
Mom just leave it. 244
The children will make a mess when they can. 245
Just leave it. 246
Every time I hear that it makes me sad. 247
-True. 248
Mom came to clean up a little. 249
-Raise the children, take care of the house, all that 250
is hard to do, but? 251
-I don't think it's hard 252
I just do what I do, I cook. 253
-Cook. 254
-When we divide our house choirs, my husband 255
makes me seaweed soup for me . 256
We take turns too. 257
-He is very family oriented. 258
-My second daughter prepares the milk and does other house choirs . 259
-Truth is that your husband sitting next to you looks tired... 260
-Husband. 261
-Shall we meet him? 262
Hi. 263
-Hi. 264
-Just looking at you I don't think you don't seem 265
to have what it takes, you look tired and worn out. 266
-Did you plan to have 8 children? 267
-You look very dry. 268
-It wasn't planned at all. 269
I was thinking on having 4. 270
-You thought of many, however. 271
-But? 272
-If it's 4... 273
-They just keep coming? 274
-No, that doesn't make sense. 275
-It was like that. 276
-In the beginning we were on track, but 277
I think my wife is children greedy. 278
-Then as a husband you could say, "We are done.", right? 279
-For example, if you are having a hard time, you could 280
you know, without letting her know, if it gets really hard. 281
-Put a ribbon on it. 282
-Hey, you bachelor. 283
-You could do that, right?. 284
-I had my thought on that, but what if she knew 285
She might get hurt, so I never said anything. 286
-Are you scared of her a little? 287
-No, it's not like that. 288
She becomes a little pushy when she thinks she is right. 289
-Your wife. 290
-But we just heard her saying it will be 12. 291
Did you know about this? 292
-Yes, I knew it. 293
-You were never against it? 294
-I was against it. 295
I think we are good now. 296
I did tell her. 297
-I think that he really respects his wife, so. 298
-what worries you the most now? 299
-She likes meeting people, she rather be outside than 300
spending time at home. 301
A month before the birth, she goes hiking in the mountain. 302
1 hour, 2 hours... 303
-Seems like she gets her vital force in the mountain. 304
-Even after the delivery... 305
-Just a couple days after? 306
-Even after a week. 307
-Where do you go? 308
-She goes out even if it's cold. 309
She's very active. 310
Usually she spends more time outside than at home 311
Her phone is sometimes off. 312
I don't know who she is with. 313
So we have some kids at the daycare. they call me and say. 314
-We cannot reach their mom. 315
-I would go during my work hours to pick them up. 316
-Where do you go around mommy? 317
-When I go around meeting people, I sometimes 318
have my phone off, so he gets nervous. 319
-Putting all on the side. you have to take care of your health after the delivery 320
-I need to have my healing time, so I put on some warm cloths 321
and go out once in a while. 322
-So if you go out, 323
You feel much healthier? 324
-Yes, yes. 325
-How about the financial burden?. 326
People who only have 3 children 327
They say it's hard to raise 3 children. 328
-My husband's business is good. 329
-Let the husband talk. 330
Your wife is strong on having more children and says that you are financially ok 331
But how about your opinion? Are you guys financially ok? 332
-Business could be good or bad 333
Sometimes it's bad. 334
What I worry the most is when we become older 335
Are we going to be able to spare money, later in our lives... 336
-Your husband is on his 40s, when the youngest turn 30 337
he will be past 60s and if you are having more children, he will be on his 70's 338
when the younger ones are not even adults yet. 339
I am a little worried about that. 340
-You never thought about that? 341
-Me and my husband, we are 10 years a part 342
And I am on my 30s. 343
I could work and take care of him... 344
Plus, I think I'm a capable person. 345
-Think about my age. 346
-No. 347
-I am wondering if there is communication between them. 348
-since it feels like she is overpowering him... 349
Since she has a bossy character, I don't think they debate enough 350
about child planning. 351
Right? 352
-Up the the 4th child, we did think and 353
discuss together a lot. 354
After that she was aggressive about having more child, it was a one way road 355
I don't think my opinions were being delivered. 356
-For you is this stressful, that it self? 357
-It's a concern. 358
-Not really. 359
Daddy thought 4 was enough, but now we have 8. 360
I believe we are going to have 12. 361
-That's a one way of thinking. 362
Your husband doesn't agree to have more. 363
-But from our point of view, we can notice that 364
her style is to lead the family on her own ways . 365
-Yes, they tend to follow my lead. 366
-If there are 8 of them, it means your husband yielded much already. 367
-What concerns you the most from now on? 368
-I have another concern. 369
-What? 370
-They will send their children to Canada. 371
Two already came back, two of them. 372
-Which ones? 373
-The first and the second child. 374
They came back. 375
-They went with a language exchange program. 376
-It worries my a lot. 377
They are sending them back. 378
-What is this story? 379
-What are your thoughts now? 380
-Well, it's not definite, but since I'm moving around a lot 381
I had lots of chances to meet people from there. 382
I have studied their culture in raising children. 383
-Immigration? 384
--Thinking about immigrating. 385
-Oh, you are thinking in moving there? 386
Did you agree to this? 387
-I didn't agree but she did decide on that. 388
She explained it well, so we can follow her lead... 389
-Let the wife tell us. 390
-First of all, it has been decided. 391
-Decided? 392
-Yes. 393
-Your husband didn't say it was definite. 394
-On February 24th... 395
-What? 396
-We are leaving on the 24th. 397
-The whole family? 398
-Me and my two children will go first. 399
Then decide on the rest of the family for immigration. 400
After my husband stays for another 5 years, maybe 10 years 401
I will be more established there, and then. 402
-He will be like a goose father? 403
-Yes, we are planning to do so. 404
-It means you will take care of 8 children by yourself in Canada? 405
-It will be hard to raise, but 406
the government have many benefits for big families. 407
Korea's education system cost a lot of money. 408
That is why I have decided to move. 409
-So the question is, why do you want to immigrate?. 410
Was it hard to raise 8 children in Korea? 411
-We have moved a lot in the past 14 years . 412
-How many times? 413
-Almost 14 times... 414
-Wow. 415
-We did. 416
-Did you receive many complains? 417
-We moved once every two years. 418
Our neighbours complained, even the cops showed up once. 419
It was hard. 420
The picture is if we go to Quebec in Canada, the houses are larger 421
and I think it will be better for the children... 422
-You said 12 children, you only have 8. 423
How are you planning to have more if you move to Canada? 424
-I get pregnant easily, one try is enough during business trips. 425
-You have a 100% success rate? 426
-Yes, I believe so. 427
-Accuracy rate is very high? 428
-But it's cold hearted. 429
Does your husband ask you to just stay? 430
Telling him to come after 5 or 10 years. 431
-Are you sure you consulted with someone from there? 432
-Yes, we have consulted and planned a lot. 433
-But for your husband, he just received a final notice 434
He just received the message. 435
-You discussed, but it seems he didn't agree to it. 436
-He talked as if nothing was decided yet. 437
-I told him it was decided... 438
Did your children agree too? 439
-They want to go to Canada too... 440
-First and second. 441
Raise your hand if you wish to go to Canada. 442
Raise your hand if you want to live happily 443
with your parents. 444
- Truth is at their age they have friends and 445
they are going through puberty and don't want to leave. 446
-But you are so eager to have it your way. 447
Your husband didn't agree to it. 448
He looks sad. 449
Are you sad? 450
-This is the biggest problem. 451
Daddy's opinion are just, being ignored. 452
-Say something. 453
-Even their children. 454
-That you want to live with them. 455
-The children too. 456
-Wife's dad is here too. 457
She already made the decision in going to Canada, what do you think? 458
-I think I'm totally against it. 459
If my son-in-law is left alone here 460
He will live by himself, right? 461
You never know what could happen. 462
-True. 463
-There are couples that get a divorce even sleeping. 464
-They wake up to do that. 465
-They say there are couple like that. 466
-Even sleeping... 467
-OK. 468
-I've lived in a foreign country for 6 months . 469
I really wanted to see my kids. 470
It was impossible to see them when I was out. 471
-That's right, I don't even dare. 472
-He will be very lonely and miss his grandkids 473
After hearing this, How do you feel? 474
-I think I can come back every year 475
Plus, we can always video chat 476
So it won't be as hard as we think. 477
-But, do you think just video chatting will be enough? 478
It won't feet all 8 of them in there. 479
-No, so going overseas and planning 480
is your problem to be solved. 481
I'm not judging that, but from my point of view it's just your opinion, 482
This is going above your husband’s opinion. Aren't you worried that 483
this will brings its consequences later on? 484
-Was you character always like that? Having to go with you plans 485
no matter what? 486
-No, it's not been always like that, I do discuss it with my husband 487
and then come to an agreement together. 488
-For your husband it was always 4. From the beginning to the end.. 489
-Yes. 490
-You want above that. 491
-Yes. 492
-And also... 493
you didn't discuss with him, from a different perspective, 494
don't you want to accept some of their opinions?, do you by any chance? 495
-Yes, I don't think it will be hard to make 12.. 496
-You are insane. 497
-It's stubborn. 498
-Like your mom said, you are insane. 499
-When I asked you first and second children 500
about their opinion to go to Canada, 501
-They looked scared. 502
-They are scared of their mom. 503
-They don't want to go... 504
-I want to ask them once. 505
Do you want to immigrate to Canada? 506
-Mommy should close her eyes, mommy close your eyes. 507
-Be honest with us when you answer. 508
-First child, do you want to go to Canada? 509
-I don't want to go. 510
-How about the second child? 511
-I think it's ok, but I also think that I don’t want to go. 512
-Don't want to go. 513
It's half and half. 514
OK. 515
-How about the third child? 516
-I don't want to go. 517
-You don't want to go? 518
OK. 519
Mommy. 520
Let's vote now. 521
-Truth is, she must have been the person who thought about having more children or 522
going to live in Canada 523
the most. She probably thought the most. 524
-True. 525
-And we should be all ashamed 526
of ourselves. 527
-Yes. 528
-8 of them. 529
The children are going to Canada. 530
She must have lots of worries. 531
That's why I think we shouldn't worry about this. 532
I don't think it's a concern. 533
-No, from the mother's perspective. 534
-She worries about the future of her son and son-in-law. 535
This is the concern. 536
I don't think that should be a concern. 537
-Why that's not a concern? 538
That's the concern. 539
This is because of your whimsy thought... 540
-This is happening since you started sleeping separately. 541
-I think it's a concern. 542
I'm sure. 543
-I want to press O O O, can't I repeat my answer? 544
-What are your thoughts from the mom's perspective? 545
If you think this is a real concern, please press the button. 546
5, 4, 3, 2, 1. 547
Stop. 548
To end this, son-in-law, do you want to say something? 549
The wife and her mom. 550
-What I worry the most is my wife's health.. 551
She gave too many births, so she should take care of herself. 552
I want to say something like this. 553
I know you are very concerned, but at the same time, 554
You don't have to worry too much. 555
-Phew, she has a great son-in-law. 556
Our mommy, do you have something to say to your mom? 557
Maybe, I will think about it again. 558
-or I will re-evaluate. Something like that. 559
-To you mom. 560
-Mom, please bear with me once for the children. 561
-Your daughter is stubborn and she already made up her mind. 562
-Mommy, grandchildren are precious, my children are precious, but 563
your mom's child is more important. 564
-Mom, mom's daughter is more important. 565
She is crying like this, it's not a bad idea to 566
re-evaluate this matter again. 567
Also, it's not a bad idea to discuss it with your husband 568
more in depth. 569
Daughter please stop. 570
It was all engraved in the title. 571
Show us the result. 572
-159? 573
-149? 574
-Oh! 575
-My older sister is gold and I'm poop is the next title. 576
Hi, how are you?. 577
My name is Choi Ga-hae. I'm in 4th grade and I hate my grandmother. 578
She treats my older sister, who's in 6th grade, like gold and me like poop 579
My grandmother bought my sister a $287 orange padding and a $50 580
jumper and she gave me 3 pairs of socks. 581
-That's a big difference. 582
-When she looks like she's going to catch a cold... 583
-She says, "Ay, our puppy’s head is on fire . 584
Let's go to the hospital." 585
-But when I was in the hospital, she didn't even come to visit me. 586
-She says, "You got hurt because you were to careless. 587
-If I get into a fight with my sister and my mom tries to scold her 588
-she says, "Are you really going to scold her in front of me?" 589
"You should be scolding her instead." 590
-She would get mad like this. 591
When I feel the worst is when. 592
-she says, "Ay, 593
instead of having one baby. 594
this one came out and makes daddy work a lot more." 595
-"What should we do? 596
-That's when I feel sad. 597
Am I a granddaughter not worth of being loved? 598
I really want to ask her why does she treat me like this 599
This what she wrote. 600
-This is truly a sad story. 601
-So, it seems like Esther is mad. 602
After hearing this story. 603
-Yes, In my family we are 5 sisters and I'm the third child. 604
When there is a 'hand me down', first sister uses it, then the second sister, 605
then it was me. That's when it would rip a part. 606
They would ask me, "why do you use your cloths in such a way?" 607
Everything would rip a part when it gets to me. 608
-Since it got ripped, it wouldn't go to the fourth sister. 609
-The fourth would always get new cloths. 610
-When dad went on a business trip and brought back a European piggy bank. 611
I would save money and my sisters would take it out 612
and spend it. Stupidly I wouldn't even know. 613
-She would not stop when she starts talking. 614
-She is greedy on air time. 615
-Like you Hae-gul... 616
-Is this a symptom for menopause? 617
Air time greediness? 618
-A guy who gets treated won't notice it. 619
-Let's meet the protagonist who bravely wrote the concern. 620
-Please come out, the protagonist of the concern. 621
-So cute! 622
-Ay, so cute. 623
Really cute. 624
Do you think your grandmother discriminates you and your sister? 625
-She would say to my sister, "My little puppy come over here." 626
but to me, she would call me XXX at the end of every sentence. 627
My grandma lives close to us. 628
So we visit her regularly, but when she sees me 629
tells me not to come, only my sister is welcomed. 630
-Really? 631
-She says not to come? 632
-If I go, she asks me why did I show up. 633
-No, that's impossible? 634
That doesn't make any sense. 635
-Why do you think she does that? 636
-I don't know. 637
I don't think she thinks I'm pretty. 638
-Well, if she knew it, she wouldn't be here. 639
-Do you remember when you felt that it was unfair with details? 640
-I did the dishes with my sister to look good to my grandmother. 641
-Good job. 642
-But my sister splashed a bubble on the sink. 643
She blamed that on me. 644
-"Di you do this?" like that? 645
-Whenever I make a mistake. 646
-Once we were eating and dropped soup on the table, 647
My sister dropped it, but she blamed that on me. 648
I told her it was my sister, but she insisted I was lying. 649
-So sad, so sad. 650
-Do you have more, more? 651
-I gave her massage. 652
-Did you? 653
-With those small hands? 654
-When my sister does it, she tells her to stop that her arm might hurt 655
When I do it, she tells me to do it harder. 656
-More? 657
-When I'm arguing with my sister, she's on my sister's side without even knowing. 658
-So your sister doesn't defend you, from you grandma? 659
-She is disgraceful. 660
-Your sister, why? 661
-She uses her as her shield. 662
-So grandma becomes a shield. 663
-Grandma is her backup. 664
-When mom scolds her, she threatens her to tell on grandma 665
Then she won't scold her as much. 666
When mom scolds her, she tells on grandma, then mom gets blamed on. 667
-She has a grudge against her grandma. 668
We don't know why, but she is seating in the front. 669
She looks like Lee Hong-ryul. 670
I thought Lee Hong-ryul was here 671
Granny, hello. 672
-Granny, how are you? 673
-I'm Ga-hae's granny. 674
-Hello. 675
You heard your granddaughter, just now. 676
How do you feel? 677
-But they have very different characters. 678
Ga-hae's personality is fastidious, 679
-Yes. 680
Then? 681
-The big one is more naive, with more tears . 682
-So if you say that now, 683
there is some kind of discrimination? 684
-Yes a little bit. 685
Even if I want to like her, she acts how she acts. 686
-Granny. 687
We are going to question you in detail. 688
So the first one flicked the bubble. 689
But why did you scold the little one? 690
-I forgot about that, it was long time ago. 691
I don't recall when that happened. 692
-Then why did you say, "First one you can come home" 693
but you said to the little one, "You don't come home"? 694
-I didn't say not to come. 695
Her... 696
-Is this an open hearing? 697
-She probably thought. 698
-I don't know, I don't remember. 699
-If I tell her, she gets mad and she doesn't even do what I ask for. 700
-Granny so you call the big one, my little puppy, 701
My puppy, our puppy, like that, right? 702
-Not in front of her. 703
-Then who calls her like that? 704
-How do you call Ga-hae? 705
-What? 706
-How do you call her, to Ga-hae? 707
Tiny puppy? 708
-What? 709
-Wow, our granny, she's cute. 710
Granny you are cute. 711
-Granny, what’s going on. 712
Granny. 713
-Ga-hae, call her by her name. 714
-Then you like the first one a little more 715
Any reason why do you care about her more than the other one? 716
-Actually I do. 717
I admit that. 718
She got a surgery when she was five. 719
the facial surgery. 720
also she can't stand up upright. 721
so she fell down again and again when she was young. she's like an injured finger or something 722
That's why I admit that. 723
I more cared about the older one. 724
-when she was young, people more cared about her because she was sick. 725
people asked me to understand that 726
-I can understand why she needed to be cared about but, 727
I don't understand why I'm being hated. 728
-yeah, wow... 729
-yes. 730
wow. 731
-but your grandma said you didn't even listen to her 732
and pissed her off or something like that. 733
-What did she say? 734
I didn't do anything but she just kept saying 735
I was a bad girl. It made me feel bad. 736
-right, you didn't do anything wrong. 737
-That's why I was yelling at her 738
then grandma said I'm eccentric. 739
-eccentric. 740
-isn't she lovely? 741
-Hong, Heygul 742
She is just a 10 years old girl and she has said everything, no hesitation 743
She can understand that her sister need to be loved more than her. 744
but I can't understand that people hate me. 745
-people don't ask her to do nothing because they just think she is sick? 746
-She is doing well. 747
-don't know what's going on. 748
-she could be sick or something 749
but do you think it isn't true? 750
-she is really ok. 751
one day she was laying and watching TV 752
-you don't like it. 753
-I wanted to go on an errand with her 754
people said "don't" 755
-only you go? 756
-yes. 757
-but errands... 758
that is... 759
this guy, other people... 760
-so did you. 761
other people just watched TV. 762
-it had to. 763
you are the youngest one. 764
what you want is that she has to do things once 765
while you do that like 5 times, right? 766
-she wouldn’t do once even if I do things like 10 times 767
-what if we should call it 5 times, now. 768
yes. 769
-yes. 770
-right? 771
-I got a question from my class teacher when I was fourth grader student 772
it was like a mistreatment. 773
did she ask what the capital city is in America. 774
I said D.C, my friend said New York. 775
I was right' 776
-yes, you are. 777
-but she said technically speaking 778
It is New York. 779
-what the hell. 780
-she patronized me. 781
listen, let me finish. 782
important thing is... 783
-to try to stop. 784
-it was 43 years ago, 785
I still remember her name. 786
Miss. Who something..... 787
Being discriminated, feeling bad 788
I understand that. 789
-then when was the first time you think your grandma hate you? 790
-one day I was leaving school early because I was sick. 791
but she said don't pretend to be sick. 792
-Don't pretend to be sick? 793
anything else? 794
-few months ago, I played on a seesaw with sister and her friends. 795
They just got down a seesaw while I still was playing on it. 796
so I was like. 797
-falling off. 798
-falling off... 799
-I got injured my stomach 800
I had to be in the hospital for a week. 801
but my grandma didn't worry about me 802
she was just saying you were careless. 803
-why didn't go to the hospital? 804
-she was in a hospital for a week 805
-fell down on a seesaw. 806
use your microphone, Miss 807
-I don't remember that. 808
-Miss, please, Miss. 809
-it happens all the time. 810
Lady, you can't just deny it . 811
-whenever she is saying she is sick 812
why always saying don't pretend to be sick? 813
-I don't remember that, either. 814
-Miss. 815
-Wow... 816
-This is too much, too much. 817
-what's your problem? 818
why don't we listen to her sister? 819
We might figure it out after listening to her. 820
Hello. 821
-Hello? 822
-Hi, nice to meet you. 823
Do you understand your sister? 824
-yes. 825
-why? 826
-She could feel unhappy little bit . 827
-little bit? 828
little bit? 829
-do you think your grandma care about you so much? 830
-Grandma peels an orange for me 831
and listens to me. 832
-what if your younger sister visit grandma? 833
-my sister don't come. 834
she doesn't want to go to grandma's house. 835
because grandma care about me more. 836
-Already two things happened. 837
the soup trouble and the bubble trouble. 838
At that time grandma please, I did it. 839
why didn't you say you did it? 840
-I did. 841
-Did you? 842
-then what did she say? 843
she didn't believe in you? 844
-no, she didn't. 845
-grandma, even though the older grand daughter said she did it 846
why do you still think the younger one did it? 847
-because I didn't see what happened. 848
-what do you think? 849
-she got punished because of thing I've done. 850
-It's not fair. 851
-what do you think? 852
-There is nothing I can do. 853
I will treat grandma with respect. 854
-don't you treat her with respect? 855
-I was yelling at her and don't listen to her. 856
and you don't even know how she is doing because you don't visit her. 857
That's the reason why grandma can't love you more? 858
-I heard your grandma blames your mom. 859
-yes, grandma bought shoes for my sister. 860
so I asked mom to buy mine because I was jealous. 861
so my Mon bought shoes 862
my sister told that grandma. 863
and then grandma blamed mom for that . 864
-I don't think I did. 865
-Please. 866
Ah, She is good. 867
-I can understand people who are denied. 868
-She is really good. 869
- There is nothing we can do. 870
-She is great. 871
-so. 872
Why did you do that because you were jealous too? 873
Be honest. 874
-Just. 875
Just. 876
-Did you just tell her? 877
Grandma, here is today's news from my family. 878
My mom bought shoes, like this? 879
-You told grandma everything 880
And grandma blames mom. 881
so things happen like why were you buying blue jeans 882
why did you do that, hair cut thing, shoes 883
did you buy it, like this happening? 884
-yes. 885
-Grandma, remember this? 886
-Nope? 887
-Nope. 888
-You should be healthy. 889
You really should, Miss 890
-Let's talk to kid's mom. 891
Hello? 892
-Hello? 893
-Hi. 894
-Nice to meet you. 895
-You look nervous. 896
-Because she is my mother in law. 897
No one can be troublesome more than she is. 898
is she strict? 899
-mother in law. sister in law 900
-Yes. she is. 901
-even now... 902
-She is little bit ... 903
I'm here because I didn't do the right thing. 904
She already blamed me. 905
the younger one asked us to come here, like she was crying 906
please just one time. 907
My mother in law blamed me a lot. 908
-Do you understand your daughter? 909
-I can understand her. 910
When she started to talk, she was saying she didn't want to visit her grandma, 911
Grandma loves my sister, she always says like this. 912
I thought she said this because she hurt by grandma's words 913
-Yeah. 914
-when they were babies, the older one was loved and cared more than the younger one because she was weak and sick 915
what about now? 916
-She is doing well now. 917
Doctor said she is ok. 918
After surgery, mother in law had worried a lot 919
about the older one. 920
-I think I need to rebut. 921
She is not okay. Even though she is careful, she fell down 922
and got injured her toe. she had to wear a cast for two months. 923
-No, her toe injury was 924
because of her fault while she played soccer. 925
That's why she got injured, it isn't about 926
her innateness or something. 927
-so did your mother in law know she was in the hospital? 928
-Yes, she did. 929
then why does she can't remember... 930
-She is an old lady! 931
-can't remember. 932
-What do you call her? 933
-what? 934
-what do you call your grand daughter, Ga-hae? 935
-What? 936
-Wow, She is a hypocrite . 937
-I don't remember at all. 938
-Miss, you are not here for a public hearing, please. 939
-How come did you do that? 940
-I don't even think it happened... 941
-Did you know Ga-hae was in the hospital? 942
-She knew. 943
Then why can't she remember... 944
she doesn't remember. 945
I think she thought it wasn't serious. 946
She thinks it's not serious. 947
-Is there anything you think it could be bad, 948
Or something? 949
-You know she is a girl. My mother in law sometimes says what if Ga-hae was a boy 950
she did say this few times before 951
Then Ga-hae asked me before don't you like I'm a girl? 952
-Did your mother in law say this in front of Ga-hae? 953
-Yes, she did. 954
-She did. 955
-Hold on. 956
Miss. 957
Microphone please. 958
Do you remember this? 959
-I was unhappy but now I'm ok. 960
I had born five daughters before I had her father. 961
I didn't care at the first time. I just wished I could have gotten a grand son 962
But I couldn't. 963
-You told Ga-hae, you wished Ga-hae would be a boy. 964
You could be a boy. 965
-What did grandma say, exactly? 966
-If your sister were a boy, you would need to be born. 967
-Oh my god... 968
-Your dad has a hard life because of you. 969
-Oh, it is left on her mind , as a scar. 970
-What was your feeling when you had a boy? 971
-I was feeling great because I already had five girls. 972
People like it, too. 973
-Actually, few decades ago some people were maltreated 974
because they didn't have boys. 975
-yes, it was hard. 976
I can't even say that. 977
My husband was drunken and come home. And He broke and threw household goods 978
I couldn't even eat and stay in the house. 979
stayed in the neighborhood. 980
I had to take my 7 children to my friend's house to avoid him. 981
-you still remember those things even though it was few decades ago? 982
very specifically. 983
-it was an emotional wound. 984
-why couldn't you remember this... 985
-Miss, You went through like hell . 986
Why don't you treat your grand daughter 987
like more considerate? 988
-It is up to me. 989
I'm a jealous and eccentric. 990
She is saying Grand ma loves my sister all the time 991
She hated me. And then I'm saying like this. 992
I would love you unless you listened to me 993
didn't yell at me and did what I asked you. 994
-Grand daughters are so lovely. 995
They don't have to do the right thing, Miss. 996
Why do you need reasons for loving them? 997
-Actually I love both. 998
-Do you? 999
-You said Ga-hae is eccentric. 1000
Do you think so? 1001
-I think she is lovely and. 1002
-full of energy. 1003
-Also she is greedy little bit . 1004
jealous. 1005
so she sometimes overreacted. 1006
-what did you do to get attention from your parents? 1007
-I took out towels in the bathroom mom already fold. 1008
-Did you intentionally did it what your mom doesn't like it? 1009
-Yes. 1010
-Anything else? 1011
-I spilled water in the living room. 1012
-what? 1013
-She is odd, Miss. 1014
-Anything else? 1015
-I pretended to be fall asleep to make my dad embrace me. 1016
-You can do that. 1017
-To be embraced, anything else? 1018
-And I cut my hand with a knife intentionally... 1019
-No, no. 1020
-cutting finger with a knife. 1021
Ah, This is really... 1022
-Do you know this is bad thing? 1023
-I know this is bad. 1024
-Then you shouldn't have done that, this thing. 1025
-No, Kids could do that. 1026
-Really? 1027
-But Ga-hae, I think your parent are upset things you've done 1028
Because they are busy. 1029
Grand ma lives alone and it makes her feel lonely. 1030
What if you do the right thing to your grandma? 1031
Maybe she could care about you like your sister? 1032
-with doing the right thing... 1033
Do you know that she did those thing intentionally? 1034
to get people's attentions... 1035
-I never thought she did it intentionally. 1036
-You are shocked. 1037
-I am. 1038
-Do you barely talk? 1039
-Ga-hae thinks she need more love from parents 1040
Because her grandma doesn't love her. 1041
-That's why she overreacted? 1042
-Have you ever raised a dog or goldfish? 1043
-Goldfish and hamster. 1044
-You did. 1045
What if you have two goldfishes? One is healthy and swimming well 1046
the other one is sick and weak. 1047
Which one would get your attention? 1048
-The sick one. 1049
-You should do that. 1050
So your grandma cares about your sister because your sister was sick 1051
Ga-hae, you are here with professionals who talks very well 1052
Also you talk well and pretty, smart and that's very true. 1053
Your grandma doesn't have to care about you so much 1054
And she thinks you are doing well without her caring. 1055
I think it is. 1056
-What do you think? 1057
-It is helpful. 1058
-Isn't it? 1059
-When was the worst thing happened to you? 1060
-Let's be honest. 1061
-I don't have anything like that 1062
but I'm sorry for having girls without a boy. 1063
I thank for sister in law because she had a boy. 1064
There was 5.9, a sever earthquake in Kyungju last year. 1065
-Yes. 1066
-I called first my mother in law. 1067
but her line was busy and I called her again 1068
She called sister in law first. 1069
-The grand son. 1070
-To check grand son is ok. 1071
-You feel sad. 1072
-No, I wasn't sad... 1073
-You don't have to say it straightly, now. 1074
-yes. 1075
She cares about me because I'm the oldest daughter in law. 1076
-She does. 1077
-She knows front door password of my house. 1078
password... 1079
-She really cares about you guys. 1080
-She often comes in to check fridge and clean house 1081
calls to say clean your house, like a joke. 1082
-Maybe it is a joke. 1083
-She treats you like a her daughter. 1084
-She didn't do this to my sister in law, only for me. 1085
It little bit felt bad. 1086
-Miss, is there anyone who teaches you how to say in this way? 1087
do you remember this? 1088
-I think... 1089
I already had a kid before getting married. 1090
I got married when my baby was 6 months old. 1091
That’s why. 1092
-got pregnant before marriage? 1093
-I didn't celebrate ... 1094
-Not even curious things. 1095
-Good memory. 1096
-Oh, You heard her story, Miss. 1097
You heard her feelings 1098
What do you think? 1099
-She felt bad, things what I did wrong. 1100
-Miss, you had better treat your daughter in law more tenderly. 1101
Anyways you guys are living together 1102
-We are living in the different houses. 1103
busy for work and vacation 1104
-Or anything feeling bad for your son 1105
for your grand daughters in your mind? 1106
-They are just kids. 1107
They know nothing. 1108
Nothing. 1109
-You were saying they are just kids 1110
That's the problem. 1111
Kids are sensitive so they feel bad easily. You guys don't know this 1112
People like you busy for work in my mother's generation. 1113
You didn't care what your children cared 1114
and felt bad. Also you guys might think it's not serious thing. 1115
Because you guys have raised and lived with this things. 1116
-That's true. 1117
Grandma loves you guys, it's sure thing 1118
You will see this 1119
She loves you all. But Your sister was born first 1120
She was sick and grandma cared about her. 1121
It made them stick together. 1122
In this case, you should be open-minded first to grandma, that's smart girl. 1123
What was your intention 1124
when you contacted with my TV program? 1125
-I want to be get to know my grandma more. 1126
-Lovely 1127
-What do you think her story? 1128
Your younger grand daughter wants to be stick to you. 1129
-Right? 1130
-Isn't she lovely? 1131
-You should change everything from today. 1132
Just only for yours. 1133
-Are you here for changing? 1134
-Yes. 1135
You should be changed. 1136
Does it work if you have any problems? 1137
-No way. 1138
-What do you want to be changed? 1139
-We should be nice to each other. 1140
Anything else? 1141
-This is beginning, now you should brag your grand daughter. 1142
-She is shrewd but sometimes soft. 1143
-soft? 1144
-Courteous. 1145
Shrewd. 1146
-Shrewd. 1147
-Means smart? 1148
differently saying. 1149
Miss, anything you want to say to 1150
your sister in law and grand daughters? 1151
-I love you all. 1152
-You should say something sweet to get grandma's love. 1153
-Grandma, I would like you treat me with love as same as 1154
you do my sister. 1155
I will do more what you ask. 1156
-I see, Let's care about each other. 1157
-I love you. 1158
-Why don't you bring her a glass of water? 1159
She might be thirsty. 1160
Give it her. 1161
-Lovely. 1162
-Why don't you give her a kiss. 1163
A kiss. 1164
Thanks. 1165
-A kiss. 1166
Give her a kiss her. 1167
-Good girl. 1168
Let's listen to the guests. 1169
-I think it's a big deal. 1170
Who is the most powerful person to grandma 1171
in the family? 1172
Maybe her son? 1173
-It is. 1174
-In a patriarchalism, 1175
He is the one who can make his mother change, I think. 1176
-Yes. 1177
-That's why father is important 1178
and he should make efforts to make them 1179
get along with family members 1180
-So do I... 1181
-You should put this up and push it. 1182
-Yes. 1183
This is a big deal for Ga-hae and you need to be more open-minded 1184
to your family members and it will work. 1185
-Adults need to do something more. 1186
To this kid. 1187
-Hyegul was changed after he turned 50. 1188
-What the hell are you doing guys? 1189
It looks like it's been a while. 1190
-Let's take a day off. 1191
-Why don't you take part in this program as an applicant? 1192
Please push the button if you think her problem is serious. 1193
-5. 1194
4. 1195
3. 1196
2. 1197
1. 1198
Please stop .-We've talked a lot, grandma. 1199
Is that true you don't remember anything? 1200
-I think it is true. 1201
-I see. 1202
-Okay. 1203
Let's see how many votes she would get. 1204
Show us. 1205
-I think it comes from the women party. 1206
Right? 1207
Isn't it over 100? 1208
Yes, it is. 1209
127. 1210
137. 1211
-Right. 1212
Good job. 1213
-It's a lot. 1214
-Go to your mom. 1215
-Miss, many people supported Ga-hae 1216
Because it is a big deal for her. 1217
which means you are lying, now. 1218
Really. 1219
-We've seen a lot of unique people here on the show 1220
and this person is very special as well. 1221
Hello. 1222
I am a man in the 40s living in Seoul. 1223
I have a perky and energetic female friend. 1224
-Female friend. 1225
-Her name is Jo Young-sook. 1226
Whenever I hang out with her, I feel like crawling in a hole. 1227
When we go to a restaurant. 1228
Oh, hello. 1229
Hello. 1230
It's Young-sook. 1231
Hey auntie, how have you been? 1232
Um... and you are? 1233
You can call me Young-sook. 1234
Young-sook. 1235
How's life auntie? 1236
My friend. 1237
She discusses life problems with a restaurant server she just met. 1238
Oh, hello driver. 1239
I'm Jo Young-sook. 1240
Did you have a lot of customers today? 1241
She even becomes best friends with public transit drivers. 1242
Not only this, she asks 'When do you get off Mr. driver?' 1243
Do you want to have a drink with me? 1244
-And she just met them? 1245
-Let's exchange numbers first. 1246
Write down my number. 1247
010. 1248
She exchanges numbers with people she just met 1249
probably up to 1000 people so far. 1250
-Is this for real? 1251
-What's more outrageous is. 1252
Oh my, I am hyped! 1253
I am so hyped right now. 1254
I feel like dancing. 1255
If you see a person swinging her hips on the street 1256
it's definitely Young-sook. 1257
I can't keep my head up when I'm outside 1258
because of my friend who bursts with too much energy and excitement. 1259
How can I stop my friend 1260
who likes to butt in and gets excited so easily? 1261
-After hearing this, I feel like this is me 1262
except for the name. 1263
-Is that so? 1264
Really? 1265
-Yes, so similar. 1266
She is always overly cheerful. 1267
-Even today, I think started up conversations with too much people 1268
I am worried. 1269
-How do you start up a conversation? 1270
-Mr. Choi Tae-joon, I just met you but you have a little cut here. 1271
You can go to the pharmacy and get this little bandage. 1272
-Before we got started we had a little interview with the guest 1273
introducing our panels on the show. 1274
And it turns out that Young-sook is close with Cultwo. 1275
-You saw how we couldn't stop giggling 1276
while you were reading. 1277
-The name is Jo Young-sook. 1278
Whenever I meet her I always... 1279
-It was so surprising to see her sitting in front. 1280
It's nice to see her. 1281
-She was our stylist. 1282
-A long time ago? 1283
Stylist? 1284
-Yes. 1285
She was unique even back then, always dancing. 1286
-She is extremely energetic. 1287
-Let's welcome our guest 1288
who is worried about an overly cheerful friend. 1289
Please come out. 1290
-That must be difficult. 1291
-Excuse me, but you are married right now, right? 1292
-Yes 1293
Married. 1294
-Then it's a bit strange, that you two meet very often. 1295
Is there a thing between you two? 1296
-Never. 1297
We first me from work. 1298
-Work? 1299
-and we've known each other for a long time 1300
but she is always all over the place. 1301
-Yes, I know. 1302
-That worries me a lot. 1303
-Dong-yeop might not know well, but this friend 1304
will actually become best friends with his wife 1305
That's how friendly she is. 1306
-How is it really? 1307
Does she really talk to strangers 1308
and dance on the street? 1309
-At restaurants, she tells others that they have good skin, 1310
asks how old they are, or if they ate. 1311
You look like a good drinker, let's have a drink 1312
Then the servers panic sometimes. 1313
When using public transit like bus or taxi, 1314
she always says hello to the drivers. 1315
And hands them her business card while they're driving. 1316
She say's 'I'm Jo Young-sook'. 1317
-She introduces herself as soon as she gets on. 1318
-Then the drivers panic and think that she is a celebrity. 1319
They say 'Sorry, I don't watch TV' 1320
but she will continue to talk about life with them 1321
and ask if working as a driver isn't too difficult. 1322
-Even in buses? 1323
-Do you have any shady intentions? 1324
Like you have to make your name known... 1325
-Not really. 1326
She's actually running an acting agency now. 1327
So I thought she was being overly outgoing 1328
since she must meet a lot of people and build networks. 1329
When drinking, she becomes too close with people in the next table 1330
and even joins them at their table. 1331
She will start singing or dancing with them. 1332
So it was a bit hard for me to 1333
take care of her. 1334
-After hearing this story, she doesn’t seem like bad person. 1335
-She's very nice. 1336
-I want to meet her. 1337
-Let's meet Young-sook 1338
whose story makes us more and more curious. 1339
-I know. 1340
-Hi, Young-sook. 1341
-Hello. 1342
This is Young-sook. 1343
-Whoa, whoa. 1344
Whoa. 1345
-This is not staged. 1346
-This is how she is normally. 1347
-It's not easy to talk to a stranger 1348
without a special reason. 1349
Why do you feel the need to start up a conversation? 1350
-We're all one race. 1351
-One race. 1352
-And there's a first to everything. 1353
And we get to know people gradually. 1354
Hi. 1355
I want to get to know everyone. 1356
Our lives are all the same anyway. 1357
-Can you talk to us too? 1358
-Ok. 1359
-What is the most common reaction when you talk to a stranger? 1360
-I'm sorry but I don't watch TV. 1361
-Then what do you say? 1362
-I'm not on TV, I'm just an ordinary person. 1363
-Then how do they react? 1364
When you say you're an ordinary person. 1365
-They look puzzled. 1366
I usually like to dress up. 1367
So maybe they think I'm a comedian or something. 1368
-Why do you always tell them your name? 1369
-That you're Young-sook? 1370
-I feel like that's being polite. 1371
Hello, I'm Young-sook. 1372
Isn't that manner? 1373
What’s funny is when I say Hi I'm Young-sook, 1374
most Korean people shy away a little 1375
but foreigners react very naturally. 1376
-Right, right. 1377
-I want to change how we greet each other. 1378
-What is the your favorite response 1379
when you say that 1380
your name is Young-sook? 1381
-Hello. 1382
I like it when they say I'm Shin Dong-yeop 1383
when I say Hi, my name is Young-sook. 1384
-Did someone actually respond like that? 1385
-Yes, two people. 1386
He was a taxi driver. 1387
-Some people ran away like I was from a strange cult. 1388
-Oh, like a cult. 1389
-I think some people might swear. 1390
If someone is in a bad mood and you say hello, 1391
they might swear. 1392
-Fortunately, my face... 1393
as not bad so no one swore at me. 1394
-You are confident in your appearance? 1395
-No. 1396
I just know that I look lady-like. 1397
-Lady-like? 1398
-Should you really worry about? 1399
She is just very friendly. 1400
-Whenever she's on the street, she will swing her hips and dance. 1401
-Oh my. 1402
-Constantly, as if she is a sexy star or something. 1403
In a very sultry way. 1404
-On the street? 1405
-I wouldn't complain if she dances alone. 1406
-But she keeps asking me to dance with her, and I'm very shy. 1407
-It'll only end if I dance too. 1408
That was one of the incidents. 1409
-I've witnessed it too. 1410
When talking to someone, 1411
she asks 'Do you want to see me dance?'. 1412
-All of a sudden? 1413
-She says 'watch' and dances. 1414
-And she's not drunk? 1415
-Huh? 1416
-When she's not drunk? 1417
-No, just at a restaurant.. 1418
She brings that person with her and dances together. 1419
-Because we both feel awkward at first. 1420
I feel awkward too. 1421
So I try to break the ice by dancing. 1422
-Dancing is more awkward with a stranger. 1423
-Not if we get really close. 1424
-In the first meet... 1425
-So, you met Choi Tae-joon for the first time at a restaurant. 1426
Can you show how you would say hello to Tae-joon 1427
and dance as well? 1428
Please come on the stage. 1429
-Is it okay? 1430
-Young-sook, Young-sook, Young-sook! 1431
-Please come over here. 1432
-Just to let you know, 1433
this is a Fermented Soybean Soup Restaurant. 1434
A Fermented Soybean Soup Restaurant. 1435
-We're eating. 1436
We're a company. 1437
-Hello. 1438
Hello. 1439
Hi. 1440
I'm Jo Young-sook. 1441
-Wow, this is new. 1442
-I'm not a bad person. 1443
-Do I know you? 1444
-No, you don't. 1445
-Oh, hello. 1446
-I was born in 1980, the year of the Monkeys. 1447
-Monkeys? 1448
-What year were you born in? 1449
-1991. 1450
-Really? 1451
What do you do? 1452
-Just a few things. 1453
-You're handsome. 1454
-I'm not a bad person. 1455
Don't worry I won't harm you. 1456
Got it? 1457
-Okay, thank you. 1458
Get up. 1459
Stand up. 1460
-Wow. 1461
-Tae-jun, are you standing up? 1462
-Awe. 1463
-This is a crime. 1464
-Right. 1465
-We're at a restaurant... 1466
So what if you were standing on the street with friends? 1467
-On the street. 1468
What would you do if this was the crosswalk? 1469
-A long time ago, I got so hyped up in front of a sidewalk. 1470
So I just danced. 1471
All my friends ran away. 1472
-Dance away. 1473
-Can we get some music? 1474
-Young-sook, show them what you got. 1475
-One-two, one-two. 1476
Young-sook! Young-sook! 1477
-Whoa, whoa. 1478
-How do you think we felt when we first saw this? 1479
-I always wanted to ask this, are you really not embarrassed? 1480
-I don't feel embarrassed. 1481
-I guess you sort of grow over it. 1482
-I think some of Young-sook's friends are here. 1483
Let's hear what they have to say. 1484
Hello. 1485
-Her friends must be unique too. 1486
-How do you know Young-sook? 1487
-We were having a 3 to 3 blind date. 1488
It was a blind date, so obviously it was very awkward. 1489
But all of a sudden, a girl showed up saying she is Young-sook. 1490
-She was not your company? 1491
-No she wasn't. 1492
-But she just showed up? 1493
-And she started to get us all hyped up. 1494
What? 1495
It turns out that the person who fixed up the blind date 1496
sent her to get us all hyped up. 1497
-Oh, the person who fixed up the blind date. 1498
-It was a blind date, but things got a bit wild 1499
so all the men went home and the ladies got so hyped up 1500
that we ended up going to a club together. 1501
-So, you've known each other since then? 1502
-Yes, for over 7 years. 1503
She has a really great personality. 1504
-What about you? 1505
-I'm the most curious about her. 1506
-Appearance-wise, you look most like Young-sook. 1507
-At first, I thought she was Young-sook. 1508
-Most people with the letter 'Young' in their names are very rich. 1509
I'm the guest's wife. 1510
-Oh, really? 1511
-I met my wife from work, and Young-sook hooked us up. 1512
-Hooked-up? 1513
-Yes. 1514
The two meet very often. 1515
And they sometimes hang out with other men 1516
so I can't help but feel... 1517
-A little worried. 1518
-So I keep joining them 1519
and I think that's why I see them more often. 1520
-This seems like something to be worries about. 1521
-He doesn't have anything to worry about. 1522
We tend not to cross the line. 1523
So nothing really bad will... 1524
-You tend to? 1525
-We don't always meet other men. 1526
Just someone we first met. 1527
We actually don't hang out with other men very often. 1528
-Aren't you enjoying it as well? 1529
Your outfit is telling us that you do. 1530
-Your outfit today is extraordinary. 1531
-You wife is saying nothing is happening, so why don't you just trust her? 1532
She says nothing is happening, you can just trust her. 1533
-When she gets drunk she gets 10 times more hyped up 1534
So she will go on second rounds with strangers. 1535
-And drink. 1536
-And drink, and she ends up 1537
lying on a stranger's lap. 1538
-Drunk? 1539
-Drunk. 1540
-Young-sook? 1541
-A man she just met. 1542
He would look at me in panic. 1543
So that kind of situations 1544
happened very often. 1545
-How does she wrap up the night? 1546
-She sets everything up, and then just leaves. 1547
So I end up taking care of everything, 1548
and sometimes I feel like swearing. 1549
-How often does she drink in a week? 1550
-About 7 days? 1551
-Everyday. 1552
-Everyday. 1553
-Is that alcohol? 1554
-I tried not to drink yesterday, 1555
but I ended up drinking... and I had to go to church today. 1556
-Do you dance at church too? 1557
-I'm in the dance team. 1558
-What? 1559
-The dance team. 1560
-Well, the church is a sacred place, 1561
So I told the minister to keep my hips tied. 1562
Keep your hips tied. 1563
-Keep my hips tied. 1564
-Do you swing your hips to a hymn? 1565
-I try to refrain. 1566
-But does it still come out? 1567
-Actually a lot... 1568
-Let's see. 1569
I've got peace like a river~. 1570
I've got peace like a river~. 1571
Did you really dance like that? 1572
At a church? 1573
-So I'm trying to refrain. 1574
-Do other saints talk about it? 1575
-Yes. 1576
At our church. 1577
-I'm embarrassed as a friend. 1578
Why don't you date men? 1579
-I always get dumped. 1580
-Aw.. 1581
I can't get in touch. 1582
I was so confused. 1583
I asked a close guy friend. 1584
Why not just block me? They would block me, 1585
and not respond back. 1586
And he said 'they just don' like you''. 1587
Well, why don't they tell me that? 1588
Why won't they end things properly? 1589
And he said, they don't even want to do that. 1590
-Why don't you know, I think I know. 1591
-Why don't you try fixing her up with someone. 1592
The she'll be busy with him and leave you alone. 1593
-I thought about it, but thinking from that guy's perspective 1594
I become hesitant. 1595
Even if she has a boyfriend, 1596
she'll hang out with people at the next table. 1597
-She can't keep focused to a guy? 1598
-No,I brag about my boyfriend. 1599
This is my boyfriend, isn't she handsome? 1600
-Would your boyfriend like that though? 1601
Why do you keep talking to other people? 1602
Honestly, is that your drunk habit? 1603
-No. 1604
Completely sober. 1605
When I'm really drunk, I don't remember things. 1606
I just want to brag about him because he is so lovely. 1607
-He says he's hesitant to introduce a guy to you. 1608
-I'm really nice to boyfriends. 1609
I'll cook him meals. 1610
I don't know why. 1611
Why he won't introduce me. 1612
-Why don't you know that. 1613
-Can you try not to talk to strangers? 1614
-I have a friend. 1615
Who hates me talking to strangers. 1616
So when I'm with her, I keep my lips sealed. 1617
-You're holding it in for her? 1618
-Yes I am. 1619
But I feel really sorry. 1620
That I didn't say hi to that person. 1621
Like on a cab, I feel that I couldn't cheer the driver up. 1622
-But we're one race. 1623
-I feel really bad. 1624
So when I'm getting off, I would say 'This was Young-sook'... 1625
-This was Young-sook. 1626
-And, this was Young-sook. 1627
-It's good to give off a lot of energy, 1628
but what do you do when you feel like being consoled by someone? 1629
-I don't think I feel depressed much. 1630
I feel like it is a waste of time. 1631
I'd rather go outside, help someone and share love. 1632
-And give energy. 1633
-Give energy. 1634
It's so nice. 1635
Only those who felt is can relate to this. 1636
But when you really hear someone out 1637
and when they cry, saying they're so happy to meet someone like me, 1638
that joy is indescribable. 1639
-So you like being with people? 1640
-It makes me happy. 1641
-You don't like being by yourself... 1642
-I rarely spend time alone. 1643
I'm never alone except for the 2 hours when I sleep. 1644
Too busy meeting other people. 1645
-Do you really sleep for only 2 hours a day? 1646
-Aren't you tired? 1647
-I think I've added one more hour. 1648
-Have you ever fainted or 1649
went to the ER? 1650
-Since you sleep only 2 hours a day. 1651
-I actually went to the ER recently. 1652
-Why, what happened? 1653
-I was giving off energy to my friends early in the morning, and suddenly my vision started to narrow 1654
and something flashed in front of me, then I couldn't breathe. 1655
-So what did you do? 1656
Did you go to the ER? 1657
-Yes. 1658
I went to the ER, but everything was fine. 1659
-Not being able to breathe when you have sleep deficit 1660
is called Autonomic dysfunction and it makes you nauseous and dizzy.. 1661
-Were you short of breath? 1662
Very shallow and fast breaths, like you weren't conscious. 1663
-Then I think you should increase your sleep time a little. 1664
-Speaking out of genuine worry. 1665
-Yes. 1666
Because you are giving off this positive energy and everything, 1667
but your friends might be worried. 1668
So, I think the guest's wife might have something to say 1669
since you're very close with Young-sook. 1670
-One time, we were passing by a bunch of very rough-looking guys 1671
and they were being very loud and swearing. 1672
And Young-sook walked up to them and asked them why they were being so loud 1673
and what their names were. Everything turned out okay, 1674
but at times like that I felt a bit scared and worried. 1675
-How do you get the courage to do that? 1676
-He had very pure eyes. 1677
-Pure eyes. 1678
-I actually still talk to him. I met him 4 years ago in Gangnam station. 1679
Since nothing bad has happened to me yet, 1680
I think someone is protecting me from above. 1681
-But then what if you meet 1682
a really malicious person? 1683
-I think she is a really warm person. 1684
She cares a lot of other people, 1685
yet two of your closest friends are worried about you, right? 1686
Then, how do you feel about 1687
listening to their concerns? 1688
-Right. 1689
-It is the most difficult issue. 1690
They say 'What about us?', 1691
but I hope they will understand me a little. 1692
Some people might smile because of me 1693
and some people feel happy because of me 1694
So I hope you can understand me. 1695
-Yes, she is always reaching out to other people 1696
like how saints reached out to others. 1697
-Yes,she is somewhat like a saint. 1698
-People here are calling you a saint, 1699
and we want all good people to live long and healthy. 1700
Since you can harm your health by meeting 30 people a day. 1701
How about meeting 25 people a day, and 20 people a day 2 days later. 1702
-Esther, this is a not a medical program, stop giving medical advices. 1703
I'm getting bored. 1704
-Okay. 1705
-Are you guys going to fight on your way home. 1706
-Yes. 1707
-How can you speak like that? 1708
-I hope that you will take care of your health so that 1709
you can help out people for a long time. 1710
-Okay. 1711
One last word. 1712
-Being perky and energetic as you are is good too, 1713
but I hope that Young-sook will take more care for herself 1714
by caring a little less about other people. 1715
-Yes. 1716
Okay. 1717
-He's a good friend. 1718
-Do you think this is a real concern? 1719
After hearing this? 1720
-Yes. 1721
Below mania is something called a hypomania. 1722
-Hypomania... 1723
-Nothing to take lightly. 1724
This is not an illness. 1725
Don't take this wrong. 1726
This might be the most ideal personality to most people. 1727
Because you're happy regardless of objectivity. 1728
-Joyful. 1729
-Happy. 1730
-Most psychologists say that mania needs treatment 1731
but hypomania is a great personality. 1732
It's bearable. 1733
-It's a concern. 1734
-Why are you different from me. 1735
Different than me. 1736
-I was going to press X too, 1737
but I thought it might be hard for her when she gets old 1738
and loses a sense of purpose . 1739
-But medically, this is hypomania and 1740
can turn into a very ideal personality 1741
with some professional consultation. 1742
A personality with great potential. 1743
-Stop telling her to get treatments. 1744
-Well, a professional can give help. 1745
-Why do you guys fight so much? 1746
-Maybe we can smooth out our personalities here. 1747
-Do you guys ever agree on something? 1748
-Yes, yes. 1749
-Of course. 1750
-If you think this is a real concern, press the button. 1751
-5, 4, 3, 2, 1. 1752
-But isn't saying hello first 1753
a really good thing? 1754
-Yes. 1755
-People in our country is not very good at 1756
responding to someone's greeting, for example on a subway. 1757
But if we say hello first like Young-sook. 1758
-They say you can't spit at a smiling face. 1759
-Young-sook, say something to your friends. 1760
-Thanks for worrying about me, 1761
and I really feel like being loved. 1762
I will give back the love I received, 1763
so please bear with me a little. 1764
Let's all live happily ever after. 1765
Love you. 1766
-And, this was Young-sook. 1767
-Say hello to the entire nation. 1768
-Hello. 1769
This is Young-sook. 1770
Hello. 1771
I'm not a bad person. 1772
I'm just Young-sook. 1773
I will continue to say hello, 1774
because we are all one race. 1775
Let's all live happily together. 1776
Thank you. 1777
-Let's see the results. 1778
-Hello, this is Young-sook. 1779
Last digit. 1780
Lucky 7. 1781
-Is it over 100 votes? 1782
77. 1783
-67. 1784
So, today's winner is 'Daughter please stop'. 1785
We will give you prizes. 1786
Congratulations. 1787
-For a healthy Korea without any worries. 1788
-We are on your side. 1789
-Thank you.